“Hello?” “Hello, Henry. It’s Lucy. Can I speak with the kids?” “Sure, just a sec. Jason? Your mom is calling.” Our typical exchange. A handful of words, the bare minimum necessary for Lucy to convey what she wants, and for me to meet her request. Anyone else answering the phone would have received a more [...]
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A Day Like Any Other
Posted in abuse, birth family, divorce, love, marriage, monogamy, parenting, sex, tagged abuse, love, marriage, monogamy, parenting, sex on October 27, 2005 | Leave a Comment »
Hugs And Kisses
Posted in dating, love, monogamy, polyamory, sex, tagged dating, love, monogamy, polyamory, sex on September 27, 2005 | Leave a Comment »
I had not heard from Anna since she dumped me—again—in early July. She had made it clear in her final note to me. If I were unwilling to try a six-week period of monogamy with her, then we were unlikely to have much of a future together, so she was done. I was unwilling to [...]
Off Again, Again
Posted in dating, jealousy, monogamy, parenting, sex, tagged dating, jealousy, monogamy, parenting on July 4, 2005 | Leave a Comment »
Anna and I met for drinks. We haven’t done that more than a handful of times since our first date, a year and a half ago. I had other plans for dinner, so we would be unable to extend the evening. We were just meeting to bend elbows during happy hour. This was her plan. [...]
Sheets
Posted in chores, marriage, monogamy, parenting, polyamory, sex, tagged chores, parenting, polyamory, sex on April 20, 2005 | Leave a Comment »
Jason was engrossed in his homework. Collie and Lillie were across the hall, playing with their three-year-old neighbor. I took the opportunity to do some laundry. In the laundry room, I ran into a new neighbor who had acquired her apartment as many of my neighbors have—she inherited it at the death of her grandparents. [...]